Why People do things without rethinking..????

Here is to Adam Lanza... a 20 year old who just opened fire and killed 20 odd school kids, teachers..and above all....his mom...what made him do it..???

Did he not love his mom...Did he hold any grudges against her...even if there was one...why did he shoot the innocent school kids...???

To understand we have to look deeper...people usually are more attached to their mom..when they are not reciprocated properly it inflicts a deep wound inside the tender heart of the child...

Adam Lanza's mom was a teacher...and as a teacher maybe she used to shower love towards the little kids of Sandy Hook Elementary School...and maybe this was unacceptable to now grown up guy of 20...

His sheer momentary action cost lives of 20 innocent school kids whose only fault was that they studied in a school where Adam's mother taught...

What does it teach us...give time to your kids...no matter where they go...send them with a pat...a hug...a kiss... let them know what they mean to us...and how happy we are to have them in our lives...

A little love will help in making them grow up into a wonderful and strong human being...one we all will be ever proud of....

Is there any such thing as Real Love???

Today being a Sunday was an usual day for me except for a housewarming ceremony of my colleague. After basic formalities and having lunch I returned back. On my way back I saw a couple standing in hot sun and arguing. At first I was unable to see the girl's face. When I saw.. it was streaming with tears and she was arguing with her boyfriend. At that particular moment one can deduce the fact that friction has been caused between the two and maybe the guy is avoiding the girl. Something was very important in getting settled down that they never bothered about the hot sun above....Whatever be the reason.... it leads one to thing if real love do exist ?? Lots of misunderstanding..ego clashes.. superiority complexes..& lack of respect for each other destroys a relation. Gone are the days when there were pious relation between a girl & a boy.... Love is a beautiful feeling where u r able to adjust to all sorts of imperfections as long as it doesn't hurt you... giving yourself fully in a relation or taking without putting any sort of commitment wont help u reach anywhere... Love is mutual give and take... of everything... likes of t partner... flaws... putting trust... giving a hand at times of need... and above all... whatever be the circumstances...                                                                         Being there when u need a shoulder to lean on...

Unknown...Unfelt...

What is that which tugged you...
What is that which bound you...
Where was it that your mind wandered...
Where was it that your heart stopped...

What is that you saw in the eyes...
What is it that you felt in your heart...
What is it that your lips wanted to say...
What is it that your ears heard...

Hope tries to make a comeback...
Desires wait an arm's length...
Feelings pulls your heart chords...
Memories of it lasts forever...

Beauty of Life...

Questioning through the eyes of a child...
Wondering through the eyes of a teen...
Hassled through the eyes of an adult..
Capturing through the eyes of an old...
Life is a question mark... Life becomes a wonder..
Life happens for a reason... Life looks different...
Life shows a path... Life gives a meaning..
to pray..to laugh..to cry... to love..and to live...

compassion...does it exist??

Yes..the word compassion means something you felt for your fellow human being so as to bring down certain amount of their suffering.. some years back people used to even sacrifice their life 4 the goodwill of others... but as time passed.. education gained upper hand.. we became well versed in all the fields.. the feeling 2 help or let alone give a hand 2 a needy person in distress was put 2 rest.. save a few willing hearts... what has happened 2 our younger generation or rather a world where life has become more easier.. the other day when i was traveling in a bus..a very old lady whose hand were shivering was standing next 2 me.. she mistook me 4 somebody else and started a conversation... when the bus maneuvered she almost had 2 keep steady 4m nt falling.. the younger lot were sitting and sum were feigning sleep.. wondered every1 is going 2 get old... they might also get into the same situation.. why then these people cant show a little love 4 t people they travel along with...  but as time flies a big question hovers... whether after some years we will even know our near and dear ones....

An instance...

Caught a glimpse of a ray far away...
Reaching nearer the lights began to sway...

Is it a mirage or a tug of strings in my heart....
Lovely beautiful thoughts...are you going to depart...

Holding tightly to my dreams...not letting go...
Watching the gathering clouds... hoping to see a rainbow...

Slowly the waves fall .... before the tides swallow...
Touching the chords ... feeling the inflow...

Swinging back and forth...wanders my heart and mind...
Reliving the memories...entangled and entwined...

Spark....

Riding through the darkness....
A moment brightens with all freshness....
Throwing all caution to wind....
You go on....still feeling a bit chagrined....
A beautiful path....paves the way.....
What is that life has to convey....
A new horizon.... a brighter future....
And lots of hopes for a heart to nurture....